
International Women’s Day!
March 9, 2023I am celebrating seminal moments, art, experiences and people in my life today that have brought me joy, inspiration and hope and helped me discover glory, strength, beauty and power in being a woman over the years.
Consider this my very own feminist millennial version of Billy Joels “We Didn’t Star the Fire” (Gen X will get that reference).
- The first time my dad played Helen Reddy’s “I Am Woman” when I was all of 6 years old.
- As an elementary school kid, watching Hillary campaigning for healthcare reform in the early 90’s
- Meeting the late Pakistani Prime Minister Benazir Bhutto when I was 10. She showed more interest in me than all the adults in the room after delivering a talk in Cupertino about women’s rights and I still remember the tenderness she had and interest she took in my thoughts.
- My first feminist literary theory class at single sex college prep high school in late 90’s
- Discovering Emily Dickenson’s poetry in aforementioned literary theory book
- Taking a rape prevention class in lieu of traditional physical education at said high school.
- My dad explaining to me why a womans right to choose is undoubtedly the right policy anytime it came up in the news.
- The first time I saw the music video for “Sleep Now In the Fire” by Rage Against the Machine
- My first sociology class in college where i truly understood why social stratification mattered.
- Beginning Yoga in 2007 allowing me to discover newfound physical & emotional strengths.
- Campaigning for Hillary in 2008
- The first time I realized the Beatles Dear Prudence is a feminist anthem while in savasana.
- All the times I was discouraged to do what I wanted to do but still did what I wanted to do even when it took years to shake off the discouragement while simultaneously learning that late blooming is not just okay, it’s beautiful.
- Learning to use Ujjayi breath.
- My dad through example, always demonstrating what liberalism really means, economically and socially.
- Living on my own.
- Marriage.
- Carrying 2 pregnancies for 18 months.
- Nursing 2 kids for a total of 42 months.
- Hillary’s presidential campaign fighting fake news and the patriarchy in ways no one could have foreseen in 2016.
- The Womens March 2017.
- Multitasking from home through a pandemic managing kids’ school, a team remotely for work, accelerating sales, and managing my home.
- Raising kids.
Women are not a monolith; we don’t all think with homogeneity, and we have vastly unique experiences. Yet we share a common space in this world that is too often defined by our societies as us being smaller or weaker, or lesser; we are deemed the ‘other’. But still I smile, because everywhere I look, and for as long as I can remember I see women rise, nonetheless.









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